YOUR CARLSBAD DIVORCE LAWYER AND MEDIATOR SAYS: DON’T LET YOUR DIVORCE DEFINE WHO YOU ARE!

When clients come in for legal services, I often ask them where they are emotionally.  Some are calm and business-like. …

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SECRET NUMBER TWO FOR AN AMICABLE DIVORCE: HAVE THE CONVERSATION

How many of you read the title to this post and thought “impossible?”  or “How do I have a conversation…

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FIRST OF FOUR SECRETS TO AN AMICABLE DIVORCE: Don’t Be A Hater.

Have you ever wished that your divorce case could be amicable?  That you could cut through the BS and the…

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THE BEST OF ALL DIVORCE/CHILD CUSTODY WORLDS: SELF-REPRESENTATION WITH MEDIATION

    This is Thomas Ferreira, your family law mediator and lawyer in Carlsbad California. Today I want to talk…

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THRIVING DURING AND AFTER DIVORCE: PLANNING FOR SUPPORT CALCULATIONS

    I’m Thomas Ferreira, your divorce and child custody mediator and lawyer in Carlsbad, serving North San Diego County…

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