YOUR FIRST STEP TO FINANCIAL SECURITY AFTER DIVORCE-COMING TO TERMS WITH YOUR FEELINGS

In November 2005 my then wife (now my ex-wife) announced her desire for a divorce.  Today I am self-employed and…

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CARLSBAD DIVORCE LAWYER AND MEDIATOR SPILLS THE BEANS-12 WAYS YOU ACHIEVE FINANCIAL SECURITY WITHOUT A LAWYER!

Thomas Ferreira here, your divorce attorney and mediator in Carlsbad, California. My divorce was final in 2007.  I owned a…

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The Value of Intangibles in Divorce Negotiation

Some of you are in the throes of nasty divorce or child custody litigation, and some of you are headed…

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CAN THE COURT REALLY HELP? SAGE WISDOM FROM YOUR CARLSBAD DIVORCE LAWYER AND MEDIATOR

I see it all the time—someone goes into family court for a solution to their problem, and finds that everything…

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TWO STEPS TO GET ANY SPOUSE INTO DIVORCE MEDIATION (NO MATTER HOW RELUCTANT THEY ARE)

If you are a regular reader of this blog you already know the value of divorce mediation, as compared to…

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SECRET NUMBER TWO FOR AN AMICABLE DIVORCE: HAVE THE CONVERSATION

How many of you read the title to this post and thought “impossible?”  or “How do I have a conversation…

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FIRST OF FOUR SECRETS TO AN AMICABLE DIVORCE: Don’t Be A Hater.

Have you ever wished that your divorce case could be amicable?  That you could cut through the BS and the…

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THE BEST OF ALL DIVORCE/CHILD CUSTODY WORLDS: SELF-REPRESENTATION WITH MEDIATION

    This is Thomas Ferreira, your family law mediator and lawyer in Carlsbad California. Today I want to talk…

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THRIVING DURING AND AFTER DIVORCE: PLANNING FOR SUPPORT CALCULATIONS

    I’m Thomas Ferreira, your divorce and child custody mediator and lawyer in Carlsbad, serving North San Diego County…

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