“WTF” AND OTHER RESPONSES TO OUR FACEBOOK ADVERTISING

This is Thomas Ferreira, your Carlsbad Divorce lawyer and mediator in Carlsbad, California.  Tammy (my wife and co-mediator) and I…

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MEDIATION: THE BEST WAY TO AVOID TOTAL WAR IN YOUR DIVORCE

Thomas Ferreira here, your family law lawyer and mediator in Carlsbad, California. I know it will sound weird to many…

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DIVORCE NEGOTIATION SECRET NUMBER THREE: The Curiosity Stance

Thomas Ferreira here with the third secret to successful divorce negotiations.  I call it the “curiosity stance”. How many of…

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SECRET NUMBER TWO FOR AN AMICABLE DIVORCE: HAVE THE CONVERSATION

How many of you read the title to this post and thought “impossible?”  or “How do I have a conversation…

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FIRST OF FOUR SECRETS TO AN AMICABLE DIVORCE: Don’t Be A Hater.

Have you ever wished that your divorce case could be amicable?  That you could cut through the BS and the…

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