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Mar 29

WANT TO FEEL CONFIDENT IN DIVORCE COURT? CARLSBAD DIVORCE ATTORNEY/MEDIATOR REVEALS A HUGE SECRET

Thomas Ferreira here, your divorce lawyer and mediator in Carlsbad California. Everyone thinks that the secret to winning in divorce court or family court (if you are an unmarried parent) is to have the best lawyer. That’s what the lawyers want you to believe. I wish I had a dollar for every self-represented litigant that …

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Jan 10

HOW TO OVERCOME DIVORCE BRAIN IN THREE EASY STEPS.

Thomas Ferreira here, your Carlsbad divorce attorney and mediator serving all of North San Diego County (and some of Riverside County too!). Let me wish you a happy new year and much prosperity and happiness in your post-divorce life. But wait a minute, you say.  I’ve been toughing out the holidays, trying to get through, …

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Mar 22

THRIVING DURING AND AFTER DIVORCE: KNOW WHAT YOU OWN AND OWE

Carlsbad Divorce Lawyer and Divorce Mediator on How to Divide Community Property Here’s a question:  Do you know you and your spouse’s net worth?  How close are you to retirement?  Do you have a dream job or career that you’d love to transition into, perhaps something that your spouse has been opposed to?  Do you …

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Mar 08

THE HIGH COST OF LOW TRUST

There was a time in America when business was done on a handshake.  Businesspeople negotiated million-dollar deals and expected that the other person’s word was their bond. A handshake is a low cost, low effort way to reach agreement, but it requires something usually lacking in divorce cases:  high trust.  The iron law of trust …

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Feb 17

WHY IS DIVORCE LITIGATION SO DOGGONE PAINFUL? THREE STEPS TO MAKING IT BETTER.

Hi, Thomas Ferreira here again, writing to you about surviving and prospering after divorce or other family law litigation.  In my office, we’ve had the usual spate of crises this week, and I am reflecting today about why it’s necessary in so many divorce and child custody cases to literally talk people down from the …

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Oct 09

CALIFORNIA DIVORCE: STAYING OUT OF COURT AND OUT OF THE POORHOUSE

CALIFORNIA DIVORCE: STAYING OUT OF COURT AND OUT OF THE POORHOUSE Please join the founder of Divorce Life Solutions, Thomas D. Ferreira, Esq., and Tammy R. Ferreira, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst™ for an information-packed seminar on how to do your divorce right. At this seminar you will learn: How to cooperate in raising your children …

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Sep 23

DIVORCE LIFE SOLUTIONS: Saving Your Sanity and Your Financial Security

DIVORCE LIFE SOLUTIONS: Saving Your Sanity and Your Financial Securityease join the founder of Divorce Life Solutions, Thomas D. Ferreira, Esq., and Tammy R. Ferreira, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst™ for an information-packed seminar on how to do your divorce right. At this seminar you will learn: How to cooperate in raising your children after divorce …

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Jun 16

California Divorce Workshop at Palomar College

Please join the founder of Divorce Life Solutions, Thomas D. Ferreira, Esq., and Tammy R. Ferreira, Certified Divorce Financial Analyst™ for an information-packed seminar on how to do your divorce right. At this seminar you will learn: How to cooperate in raising your children after divorce How to save huge money and avoid nasty litigation …

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